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	<title>Comments on: Dealing With Anger and Personal Attacks</title>
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		<title>By: ray</title>
		<link>http://freshblogger.com/2007/02/dealing-with-anger-and-personal-attacks/comment-page-1/#comment-69896</link>
		<dc:creator>ray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2007 13:51:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Wellness. I wouldn&#039;t exactly call yours an adult site! But, I don&#039;t mind being linked to as long as the post is properly attributed (ie. includes a link to the original article) and only an excerpt from my post is included (no full text scraping). Thanks for stopping by.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Wellness. I wouldn&#8217;t exactly call yours an adult site! But, I don&#8217;t mind being linked to as long as the post is properly attributed (ie. includes a link to the original article) and only an excerpt from my post is included (no full text scraping). Thanks for stopping by.</p>
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		<title>By: Wellness</title>
		<link>http://freshblogger.com/2007/02/dealing-with-anger-and-personal-attacks/comment-page-1/#comment-66384</link>
		<dc:creator>Wellness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2007 21:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey 
 
I was surfing the web and i saw this site, pretty cool. 
Currently im running and adult site:&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wellnessmonitorz.com&quot;&gt;Wellness&lt;/a&gt; 
k, just want to say hi :) 
Can i link you from my site? im looking for quality content like yours. If no let me know if i can add u in exchange for a montly fee or something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey </p>
<p>I was surfing the web and i saw this site, pretty cool.<br />
Currently im running and adult site:<a href="http://www.wellnessmonitorz.com">Wellness</a><br />
k, just want to say hi <img src='http://freshblogger.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Can i link you from my site? im looking for quality content like yours. If no let me know if i can add u in exchange for a montly fee or something.</p>
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		<title>By: ray</title>
		<link>http://freshblogger.com/2007/02/dealing-with-anger-and-personal-attacks/comment-page-1/#comment-28851</link>
		<dc:creator>ray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2007 20:04:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I couldn&#039;t agree more! Anger has a way of feeding on itself and just eating us up inside...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t agree more! Anger has a way of feeding on itself and just eating us up inside&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: HolisticHealth</title>
		<link>http://freshblogger.com/2007/02/dealing-with-anger-and-personal-attacks/comment-page-1/#comment-28705</link>
		<dc:creator>HolisticHealth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 21:03:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We all get angry sometimes due to something or the other. Most of the time we become victims of our own anger.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all get angry sometimes due to something or the other. Most of the time we become victims of our own anger.</p>
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		<title>By: ray</title>
		<link>http://freshblogger.com/2007/02/dealing-with-anger-and-personal-attacks/comment-page-1/#comment-12358</link>
		<dc:creator>ray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Feb 2007 11:54:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Chris. I haven&#039;t had too much trouble with negative comments here, either, but I have noticed that about the Digg crowd, too. Many of the comments I see there tend to be sarcastic and condescending, but not in a funny way. The least they could do if they have to be assholes is to be a little funny.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Chris. I haven&#8217;t had too much trouble with negative comments here, either, but I have noticed that about the Digg crowd, too. Many of the comments I see there tend to be sarcastic and condescending, but not in a funny way. The least they could do if they have to be assholes is to be a little funny.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://freshblogger.com/2007/02/dealing-with-anger-and-personal-attacks/comment-page-1/#comment-12299</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Feb 2007 05:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haven&#039;t had much negative on my blog, but have had negative comments on Digg.  One person said that a survey I was doing on my blog was the stupidest question he had ever heard.  I just ignored it, it seems there can be a lot of negative on that site for some reason, although, I really like the site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haven&#8217;t had much negative on my blog, but have had negative comments on Digg.  One person said that a survey I was doing on my blog was the stupidest question he had ever heard.  I just ignored it, it seems there can be a lot of negative on that site for some reason, although, I really like the site.</p>
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		<title>By: ray</title>
		<link>http://freshblogger.com/2007/02/dealing-with-anger-and-personal-attacks/comment-page-1/#comment-11992</link>
		<dc:creator>ray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Feb 2007 20:38:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Brian. You&#039;re absolutely right. Stephen Covey talks about that decision interval between receiving some sort of sensory input and responding to it. We have this time to formulate some sort of response. Sometimes it&#039;s very short, like when we touch something hot and sometimes it&#039;s a bit longer, like when someone posts a jerky comment on our blog.

You hit the nail on the head, though, when you said it&#039;s how you deal with it that matters. Our responses to the stimuli provided by our environment are what make us who we are. Thanks for stopping by and joining the conversation!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Brian. You&#8217;re absolutely right. Stephen Covey talks about that decision interval between receiving some sort of sensory input and responding to it. We have this time to formulate some sort of response. Sometimes it&#8217;s very short, like when we touch something hot and sometimes it&#8217;s a bit longer, like when someone posts a jerky comment on our blog.</p>
<p>You hit the nail on the head, though, when you said it&#8217;s how you deal with it that matters. Our responses to the stimuli provided by our environment are what make us who we are. Thanks for stopping by and joining the conversation!</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Queenan</title>
		<link>http://freshblogger.com/2007/02/dealing-with-anger-and-personal-attacks/comment-page-1/#comment-11961</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian Queenan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Feb 2007 17:23:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post Ray. Well written and very detailed. Great job!

I had one of those troll posts on my blog recently. The comment basically read with a lot of choice words that I had spammed this persons blog. My first reaction was to delete the comment and move on.

I decided not to do that because that would have implied that I had done what this person claimed that I did. I cleaned up the comment and replied to the comment.

I guess the point is that no matter what the situation is you have to deal with it one way or the other. It&#039;s how you deal with it is what matters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post Ray. Well written and very detailed. Great job!</p>
<p>I had one of those troll posts on my blog recently. The comment basically read with a lot of choice words that I had spammed this persons blog. My first reaction was to delete the comment and move on.</p>
<p>I decided not to do that because that would have implied that I had done what this person claimed that I did. I cleaned up the comment and replied to the comment.</p>
<p>I guess the point is that no matter what the situation is you have to deal with it one way or the other. It&#8217;s how you deal with it is what matters.</p>
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