My good friend Pearl has written a post about the little things that give us hope through dark and trying times in our lives. She’s lately been dealing with the death of her father and I’m sure it’s been impossible for her at times to see the light through the clouds. I’m honored to be included in her list of people who have helped her get through this.
When we go through these experiences, it’s important to remember that there is still a sun behind those clouds. As important as our loved ones, friends, jobs, homes, cars, and other things in life are to us, there is more in our lives than just one person or job or possession. The pain and emptiness of loss can only be dealt with by accepting that we’ve lost someone or something very precious and then realizing that there are other precious things in our lives to cherish.
With this in mind, don’t wait until you’ve lost someone or something important to you before filling your life with good things. Take time to search for those rays of sunlight while there are few clouds in the blue sky. Meet new people, try new foods, and experience life to the fullest every day. Living a full and passionate life won’t save you from the pain of loss, but will help to insulate you from the worst of the pain and quickly put you on the road to recovery.
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If pain does not visit us, we would not know pleasure and vice versa. Facing up to loss is extremely difficult for the individual concerned, but face up she must. A bank of contacts established during normal days helps in healing and your post suggests it in a beautiful way.
@Music Terms: you said it so well about the contacts established during normal and happy times are the ones that help us during bad days.. I’ve come across some amazing people who’ve proved to be a major source of strength.
@Ray: thank you for this post Ray. Although extremely difficult, it helps my perspective to focus on what I still have vs what I’ve lost..
Pearl, I am indeed happy that you found what I wrote nice. I wish you all the very best in coming to grips with this loss and getting on with your life.
Nice piece of story. I hope everything go through well and wish you best of luck and success in your life. Thanks for this article.
This is such an important concept. I’m pleased to you devoted your article to this.
One of the things that gives me hope and delight when thinking of my deceased mother is remembering the good times we enjoyed during her life. Making sure you spend quality time with your loved ones when they are alive is one way to have great memories to give you comfort.
Absolutely true indeed! Life is little and so it must be led with passionate and positive attitude. The dark night is always followed by a bright morning. Living with enthusiasm and to the fullest is what life is all about. I loved your blog and you have compelled me to bookmark your blog and heres it is: http://del.icio.us/britneyvaughan
This may sound like a cliche, but well, there would be no sunshine had there been no rain!
Meaning, you will be able to distinguish bitter from sweet once you are able to taste it. Loss can be rather painful, but remember never wallow in your miseries. Move on!